This is a 'Lifestyle Leadership' blog - to support you to live the life you love. I write about innovation, leadership and activity focused on the great outdoors and on North East Scotland. “Copyright © 2021 Neil Mapes. All Rights Reserved.”
Wednesday, 25 November 2020
#35: Reflections from the shore
Tuesday, 24 November 2020
#34: Reflections from the shore
Wednesday, 18 November 2020
#33: Reflections from the shore
Monday, 16 November 2020
#32: Reflections from the shore
Thursday, 12 November 2020
#30: Reflections from the shore
Monday, 17 August 2020
#27: Nairn a Ten-minute town
In the recent holiday period, Nairn has received a fair number of visitors. Whilst the increase in people on the beach and in the town has brought some increased anxiety for some, it has been great to see so many families enjoying traditional time on the beach and in the sea. An increasing number of these visitors are either dreaming of living in Nairn (recent comment overheard on the beach ‘imagine living here’ as reported on Nairn Rocks) or are visiting with property searches in mind. Scotland’s house prices reached record highs this month according to Rightmove which has seen its busiest month for sales in a decade. With home working now becoming the longer-term work mode for so many people there is an increase in interest for housing from those seeking a ‘lifestyle change.’ Unsurprisingly those from south of Birmingham and within the commuter belt of London are driving much of this interest. Do read my previous blog post #14 if you are thinking of moving to a remote corner of Scotland which outlines how our family decided on Nairn as our new home.
There are a variety of models emerging through the lockdown period which encourage us to maintain thinking about how we can live, work and shop locally. In Melbourne, Australia they are developing 20-minute neighbourhoods, an article in the FT recently spoke about 15-minute cities. We had a friend up visiting from Essex recently looking to retire to Nairn. One of the common selling points we often find ourselves saying in support of Nairn is that ‘everything you could need is within ten minutes walk or cycle’. As we all look to build on environmental progress towards carbon-neutral towns and cities it is likely that we are going to see a resurgence in ten-minute towns like Nairn.
What makes a good ten-minute town? Services and quality of life within ten minutes from the home that doesn’t involve getting in a car. For example, a good ten-minute town, like Nairn, would have:
Healthcare facilities
Work and employment opportunities
Schools and care homes
Shops, pubs and restaurants
Entertainment and sporting clubs
Places of worship
Pocket parks, blue spaces and green spaces linked as nature corridors across the town
Bus and train stations and stops for accessing places further afield
In Nairn, you have all of these plus the fresh sea air and a sense of peace and quiet that can be quickly obtained from just a few minutes listening to the waves on the miles of sandy beaches. But far from being the perfect place Nairn still has a lot to do to win a gold standard for the ten-minute town. There is an investment needed in infrastructure which prioritises walking and cycling - an obvious missing business in the town is a bike hire & maintenance shop. Whilst the river and beaches are stunning there could be more spaces for nature to move around the town through green corridors. And there are too many High street shops empty which could become new social businesses or much-needed housing and multi-use sites. Many of us have recently appreciated just how important the services and quality of life is local to home. Ten-minute towns like Nairn just might start to flourish again.
Monday, 22 June 2020
#24: Streaking ahead: thoughts on daily repetition
Is there something that you do every day, without fail? Every day?
A good friend of mine has had the same breakfast, day after day, for many years. Steve Jobs was famous for wearing the same clothes and for daily repetition, particularly focused on removing unnecessary decisions - i.e. one less thing to worry about. The prolific blogger Seth Godin publishes something every day and writes powerfully on the rationale and need for daily blogging and writing. Looking back at my life it appears that I am a bit of a butterfly, attracted by the next flower. Very rarely have I done the same thing day in day out, favouring instead the pursuit of variety and novelty. But in recent weeks repetition of daily and weekly practices are slowly becoming the norm in my life. Importantly, much to my surprise, I am noticing some significant benefits.
I started re-reading The Lydiard Way again about a month ago. It is possibly one of the best running books ever written from one of the best running coaches. The first time I read the book, about ten years ago when I got to the training schedules pages which recommended a 7 day a week running plan, even for beginners, I quietly shelved the book and carried on plodding around the fields three days a week.
But with more time on my hands and having read the book again, I have started going out every day for a run. I am only on day #22 of what runners describe as a ‘Streak’ - a term to describe running every day without fail, normally for one mile or more. The most famous streak belongs to Ron Hill whose streak went on for pretty much a lifetime at 19,032 days! But even at 22 days, I am already finding that my fitness has improved and mentally I am more robust as I know that each day, whatever happens, I will be able to get out and run. I have had to make some adaptations like increasing yoga sessions, and stretching and massaging my legs in front of the TV, which can look a bit weird. I have found that the cold water therapy associated with getting in the sea each week in North East Scotland is a perfect ice bath for reducing swollen muscles and joints from lots of mileage. Rather than struggling to keep up the daily practice, which I previously felt would put too much pressure on myself to run, I now look forward to my run each day. You can follow me on Strava to see the gains I have made in the last three weeks.
It has got me thinking not only about our personal lives, sports and hobbies but the work we do. Are there things in our work which are like the daily run? Those tasks which are essentially good for us and good for our organisations but for whatever reason we procrastinate over or delay - possibly in favour of the shiny and bright new idea or novel way of working. Big goals at work have to be broken down into smaller steps to make them more realistic and manageable. What better way of achieving them than doing something small every day (a work equivalent to the daily mile) which moves you down the road towards your end goal?
What could you do every day, that if you continued it day in day out, without fail would make you healthier and happier? Maybe it is a daily walk or even just sitting outside for ten minutes before starting work. Not only does daily repetition bring performance benefits, but it also takes away one more decision you need to make and keeps you on track towards living the life you really want. I have been running 20 years now on and off and am really glad that I have started my running streak but wonder why I never did this before.
How can you streak ahead in life by doing the same thing every day?
Monday, 16 March 2020
#14: Thinking of moving to a remote corner of Scotland?
This time last year we made the trip from Essex to Aviemore and beyond to look at houses in the North East of Scotland. Our goal whilst on our house hunting holiday was to find a new family location and home which could house the four of us (Lucy and I, along with our two children, now 13 and 10) as well as my parents, as we looked to sell two houses in the south-east and buy a larger family home together in Scotland. The six of us sat down and drew up the following collective criteria for our new home:
- Waterside, view of water from the property
- Close to a park or green space
- 5+ bedrooms (for our extended family: 4 adults and two children)
- Downstairs bathroom and/or bedroom (if my parents might need it in the future)
- Upstairs bathroom (and/or ensuites)
- Two lounges downstairs
- Large kitchen diner
- Potential for two desk office space (for working from home if needed)
- Garden with side/back access big enough to grow our own fruit and veg
- Shed or wood store
- Off-street parking for 2 cars
- Sunroom/garden room
- Solar panels or eco/energy-saving features
- Conservatory
- South or West facing orientation
- Independent kitchen/space for Mum and Dad
- Storage space/loft
- Local clubs for swimming, cycling, running, sailing
- Local pub (never really had a local pub, within walking distance before)
- Local shops and amenities
- Less than three miles to good schools
- Local hospital, medical and social care if we need it (Mum and Dad have both had health scares)
- Broadband and good mobile phone reception
- Access to outdoor adventures
- Access to a train station and bus station (so we are not reliant on the car)
- Access to Inverness airport (for holidays and work trips in the UK).
If you are thinking, maybe because of Brexit or because of the recent global challenges, it is time to think about and plan a move to Scotland, rest assured there are many rural communities, like Nairn, who will welcome and support you and your family. Six months into our new location and with a new job starting tomorrow we have very much settled into life in our remote corner of Scotland. So make some time, sit down with your loved ones and draw up your criteria list - where would you love to live, how would you like to live, what would you like to be doing? Make your list and start looking at places on-line, book a house hunting trip and you might just surprise yourself at what you can find. Rural Scotland might just be the answer to your problems.


